Overcome People Pleasing

& Learn To Honor Your Boundaries

Does this sound like you?:

  • An expert at noticing the shifting moods of others but struggle to be with your own emotions

  • Find it difficult to know what you want and even harder to ask for what you need

  • End up in the caretaker role in many relationships but don’t receive the same in return

  • Have a hard time taking up space

  • Feel burned out or overwhelmed


I’m here to help you uncover the roots of these habits from the past and practice new skills to move you toward a more easeful future. We’ll also label how systems of power and cultural narratives (e.g. racism, patriarchy, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, mononormativity, purity culture, diet culture, fat phobia, capitalism) compound the message to put yourself last. Let’s unpack it and help get you back in your power.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • People-pleasing often stems from past experiences, like seeking approval or safety in relationships, and is reinforced by societal pressures such as cultural expectations or systems of power. It can be challenging to stop because the patterns become deeply ingrained over time, making it feel uncomfortable or even risky to prioritize your own needs. Therapy can help you uncover these roots and replace unhelpful habits with healthier ones.

  • Feeling guilty when setting boundaries is common, especially if you’re used to putting others first. Therapy can provide tools to help you reframe guilt as a sign of growth, practice boundary setting in a way that feels authentic, and build confidence in prioritizing your own well-being without sacrificing your relationships.

  • Yes, people-pleasing often leads to burnout because you’re constantly prioritizing others’ needs over your own, leaving little time or energy for self-care. This imbalance can create a cycle of overwhelm and resentment. Therapy can help you identify where this pattern is showing up in your life and guide you in making changes to protect your energy.

  • Therapy creates space to explore how cultural narratives and systems of power—such as patriarchy, racism, or capitalism—reinforce the idea that you must put yourself last. By understanding these influences, you can begin to challenge and dismantle those internalized messages, empowering yourself to create a life that reflects your values and needs.

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Together, we’ll uncover the roots of these patterns, practice setting boundaries, and build the confidence to prioritize your needs. Let’s work toward creating a more balanced and fulfilling life—schedule an appointment today to get started.